The Perfect Condom

Let's face it; most guys can't stand the thought of having to stop in the middle of a very intense moment only to rip open a little package and place a rubber contraption over his penis, only to penetrate his woman and feel virtually nothing up until the point when he reaches orgasm. But snap out of it! Condom use may not exactly be the first thing that comes to mind when you picture an erotic evening with your woman, but considering that some of us grew up in the time where sex could literally kill us, slipping on a jimmy doesn't seem so bad. As well, if you're not ready to have a baby screaming out for daddy just yet, condoms help prevent a potential double whammy.

And nowadays, with all the options available out there for you and your partner to experiment with, it's about time you not only adopt the "if you can't beat 'em, join 'em" mentality; it's time to turn condom use into a fun endeavor.

After today's tip, you will not only be excited to put on a condom (that goes without saying), but you will find the perfect condom for you, your woman and the nasty things you're going to do.

Now before we get started, you need to know that not all condoms are alike; in fact, some are far superior to others. As well, because not all penises are shaped the same, you're going to have to shop around for the perfect hat for your head.

what material is it?

Condoms come in different materials and only through trial and error will you discover which one is the best fit for you. And of course, the most comfortable.

Latex: This type of rubber is most used in condoms. It protects against most STDs and pregnancy. But of course, as with anything, they're not 100% reliable and with excessive friction or pressure, latex may rip. As well, some people are allergic to latex (symptoms include skin rash, itching, hives, and dizziness). Water and silicone-based lubricants are welcome, oily ones are not (no baby oil or petroleum jelly).

Polyurethane: One of the newest materials for condoms, it's nearly twice as strong and thick as latex. But that's not all; because this material heats up with body temperature, it can be the closest thing to skin-to-skin (flesh) contact. The catch? Only two brands (Avanti Polyurethane and Trojan Supra) use them thus far, and they're considerably more expensive than latex. Water, silicone and oil-based lubes are welcome.

More material, the female condom, the right fit, and fun with condoms...

Tactylon: Another relatively new material (thermoplastic polymer) is on the market and supplies similar sensations to polyurethane. As well, they are stretchy, conform to the penis easily and provide a more "natural" sensation. All lubrication is permitted for use in conjunction with this material.

Lambskin: This type of condom does not prevent against HIV and other STDs, but if you're in a monogamous, STD-free relationship and want to prevent pregnancy, this may be the way to go. Keep in mind that lambskin condoms are also quite pricey. Water and silicone-based lubes are welcome, but avoid oil.

Female condom: Made of polyurethane (see above), this condom is for her -- and not you -- to put on. The great thing is that she can insert it up to eight hours before you have sex. It's also believed to protect against herpes and HPV (Human Papilloma Virus -- genital warts) because it covers the entire vulva as well as the vagina. And because it's made of polyurethane, users claim that it feels much more natural. The problem is that insertion may be a little tricky for some women and if inserted incorrectly, it may not serve its intended purpose.

how do I know it'll fit?

There was a time when condoms were thick, smelled funky and hardly gave you an option. But nowadays there are hundreds of available varieties and condoms are fun, creative and there are fits, styles and additives for everyone.

Typically, unless otherwise indicated, condoms are meant to fit any average-sized penis (approximately four to seven inches). And while I can't provide a list of what every term from "Ultra-sensitive" to "Snugger Fit" means, you're going to have to try a variety of brands before you decide which one is right for your trooper and your lady du jour.

So when you go shopping for head covers, choose condoms that you think will provide what you're looking for. If you want high sensation, then buy a couple of "Ultra Thin & Sensitive" condoms. But if you're a big fan of the stand that is one night, perhaps ultimate pleasure should take a backseat to safety and you may want to hang on to some "Full Coverage" condoms.

If you're above average in the length department, then opt for brands such as Beyond Seven to ensure a good fit and maintain comfort and safety.

great texture

Now when it comes to sensation, you know all about the material involved; but now it's time to have fun with condom use. Keep in mind that you should always check the condom package; if it says "For Novelty Use Only," that means it will not protect against STDs or pregnancy, so tread, or rather penetrate, carefully.

Textures: Ah those wonderful ribs... they provide pleasure for both partners and give you that little oomph you might be needing after realizing that condom use is going to be a regular habit for you. There are even condoms that are studded with latex, heavily veined, as well as a host of other add-ons for those who want to add a little kick to their condom use. Take your pick.

Colors: Every color under the sun is available, from the glow-in-the-dark variety to the "gold member" kind. If you want to surprise her on, say, Valentine's Day, wrap your penis up in a nice red condom and give up the goods.

Flavors: If you use condoms in your oral sex reception, why not at least provide her with a taste for the flavor? From strawberry and chocolate to peppermint and banana, there's something for everyone. Now you can finally give her the banana split of her dreams.

So , happy condom hunting.